Hmmmm

Some may call it-Facebook stalking --others may call it hunting down a deadbeat husband, father, and son. I want a divorce from Duane Edward ash. I I have never Facebook stalked anyone, and certainly not you (Tamara Adkins). Why would I??

My apology  was sincere- I had no right to comment on you in anyway --you are not the problem. I expected you to delete your attention seeking comment regarding me.... 

According to sc law- Ed has to be handed the papers by a server (sheriffs deputy. ) that's the only reason I'm looking for him.... 

Ed is still my husband-regardless if it's only in the eyes of the law. 

After my surgery- my life began to change.... I reflected on my relationship, marriage, or whatever it was with Ed. .. And I'm quite aware of the mistakes, meanness, and, horrific things that took place during this catastrophe of a marriage.

I don't appreciate the nude photos u took of my husband and the ones he took of you....karma is a bitch... Trust me I have received my karma.... Good luck...

"The dollar store version of you" a very wise woman recently said....

Savannah, GA-2016

Savannah is about 3 1/2 hours from Rock Hill- I love the idea of this festive seaside (it's reall an ocean) town (really a city). The art, food, people, and never forget the drinking in this town make me feel alive- everyone seems to be enjoying themselves... 

We arrive at a very nice hotel one street over from the river walk- I walk into the suite and was very impressed with the sitting room and contemporary furnishings. 

I set out to take in the city and all it has to offer... I wonder through art galleries, boutiques all while trying to find interesting photos to take of this historic place that's so alive. 

I enjoy a fabulous meal at Alligator Soule!! Omg ecstasy in my mouth!!! Oyster appetizer was hmmmmmm- delicious!! I finished my meal with a yummy dessert and a frozen wine (never heard and certainly never tried a frozen wine) very very good! Being the smart ass that I am-I ask, "what is frozen wine?? Frozen grapes??" The response, "yes, the wine is made from frozen grapes" 

I meet my girlfriend whom I haven't seen in years... Thank goodness she was there for me....

2016-Knoxville, TN

I'm in Knoxville, TN... This time I'm not just passing through-this visit I'm hanging in the city where I felt such positive vibes 

Is this man stalking me???

No... He's just nutty 

Ohmmmmm

Things seem to be getting better and better for me

I had some legal woes and I was unsure of the outcome- ok I was more than unsure- I was scared to death!! All charges dismissed except 1- I received a fine (paid) and now I can move on with my life.. Thank you God!!!! 

Sickly

I woke up Monday morning in excruciating pain-so bad I had to be taken to the hospital by ambulance. Once the CT was performed a large abdominal mass was discovered. I was given pain meds and sent home with a referral to a local ob/gyn. However, I am involved with a doctor who called a friend of his at Duke. She has agreed to take my case. I'm headed to Duke today. 

Dating in your 40's

I find dating in my 40s similar to dating in my 20s and 30s instead of meeting men in bars who wreck of alcohol I meet men on the internet. Holy shit what a different world some of these people come from... Especially me!!!

Internet dating can be divided into categories: 

men/women who genuinely want to b in a relationship 

Men/women checking out the concept of Internet dating- if they get s date great if not oh well

Men/women who troll - they typicAlly stay on the site forever- looking for sex, money, status, etc

Desperado- less attractive people who have not been lucky in love because of... Well just because.... 

I met an amazing man or so I thought... Joe! Actually he is a good man- we had fun together- he was free- me allowed me to be free.... Just one problem- the wife he no longer wanted to be married to... Getting rid of her was no easy task... Joe and I battled over her, laughed about her lack of pride, and even felt sorry for her... Nonetheless Joe was a good man!!! LOVED and still love his mother- beautiful person!!! 

Dr Dick- what a character- he described himself as a healer and I believe he is a healer!! He is an actual doctor of internal medicine. He happens to be the smartest person I have ever met... He can be fun, giving, funny, free, and kind... But Dick has a dark side- he's petty, scared, mean, and selfish!! 

I don't regret anything that happened in Savannah, GA. I'm thankful I didn't have to ride home with him..I'm also thankful he's no longer a part of my life. I don't want someone to be cruel to me, because they don't get their way... Oh I forgot to mention he's not a child-he's 60 something years old and acts like a spoiled brat. 

I forgave him when I probably shouldn't- in the past I would've tortured him the way a cat does a mouse or Frankie tortures lizards... After having cancer things changed--controlling another person doesn't have the same appeal in once did!!! 

Irony: Knoxville sucked with him.. Best part of the trip- the ride home with a complete stranger (who by the way- began calling and asking me out-asking me to meet him in Asheville- lmao) Savannah best part of the trip--the look on his face while we were standing at the door!!! I can't elaborate because I don't want to incriminate myself.. I still chuckle at his expression!!! He was very confused when he thought he could once again be a fucking dick to me... Not this time sweetpea!! I arrived home at 8:00 am thanking God that Rabdy Silverstine would no longer be in my life......

Warning to all women dating in their 40s... Never give in!!!! Be polite-never be a pushover-look your best-never ever give yourself freely and quickly-and always see the light!!! Lol and never try and get between a man and his lover a camel.... Lol